I have no ambition to do anything. Carter and Mike are both sleeping and I am sitting here.

We went to a wedding of good friends of ours last night. It was so pretty and everything appeared to go off without a hitch. They make a great couple and we are so happy for them!

The wedding makes me think of this. Why is that men are so stubborn and pig headed? Yes, yes, I can be too, and know a lot of women that are as well. But this is to the point where it’s just silly.
Mike and his best friend (Mike, lol - he was the groom last night at the wedding we attended.) love to hang out with each other and they are the best of friends.. but they get in these situations where they just don’t talk and won’t be the one to call the other first. So female if you ask me.
So, it’s been about a year since we’ve talked to them last. Why? Who the hell knows. I’ve told Mike to just call him… everyone’s busy with their own lives and YOU have a minute, so just pick up the phone and call. Well no, he can’t do that. Because his buddy Mike doesn’t have the time to talk. Well, how the hell do you know that if you don’t call!?
Then it’s been so long that they think the other one is mad and then they are afraid to call. *sigh* What the fuck is that all about!?

So last night, they finally see each other and talk, it’s like old times and they sit there wondering why it’s been so long since they talked. I just shake me head wondering the same thing. Men.
So Mike’s new wife and I just agree that WE will be the ones to make plans and visits and such, since these two guys would rather see a friendship disappear then make the first move. I just don’t get it.

So, since they decided to start talking… we didn’t get home until late (well, early for most people our age, LOL) and got to sleep in until 11am since Carter spent the night at his grandparents house. I can’t even remember the last time I had slept that long, it was like heaven. So wonderful and peaceful, until the guilt set in that I was in bed still and someone else was watching my baby, which forced me to get my ass out of bed and go get him. Then he’s been napping since getting home. I haven’t seen the kid barely all weekend and we’re back to work and daycare tomorrow. Yuck.

I have been searching and searching for a new blog template. I love the one I have… but I want something different. Something more for me. I have thought about trying to learn to make one.. but it seems like A LOT of work. I just don’t think I have the time for something like that right now. But I have been looking and looking for something, yet nothing is jumping out at me. I may just have to let it go and stay with this one for the time being.

I am hoping that I can get this blog out in the open and make it something that people would be interested in reading… but I am unsure if it’s something that I really want to do because I like the fact that if I feel the need I can gripe about people and it’s not out there for them to find… well, it is, but not as easliy. It’s just an idea that I have been toying with.. not sure if it will ever get past that point.