I’m really not in the blogging mood; just have to get this out. My best friend is in the midst of miscarrying her baby. I am at a loss for her. I with there was something I could do or say that would make it better. That would help take away some of the pain she must be feeling right now. I feel like everything I say means nothing, after all, I really have no idea what I am talking about since we never had trouble conceiving. I feel like it’s truly meaningless because I haven’t been there, and I really don’t know how she’s feeling. It’s just not fair.

I think about all those people that have had infertility, troubles, complications and realize just how blessed we were. I have made so many friends that have been faced with these hardships and some have been so lucky to get through and have the miracles that they long for; and others are still trying and have had to deal with heartache after heartache. It’s so sad when I think about the number of people that are really faced with this; before contemplating having children I never realized just how common it was.

I can’t explain how upset I am for her. She kept saying that her worst fear was that she would lose the baby and I kept saying that she can’t think like that and that *if* something were to ever happen she can’t blame herself, there is nothing you can do *if* it was to happen. Then she called me today to tell me the news. I tried to stay positive, but I am just crushed for her and her husband.

Please, keep them in your thoughts.