July 10th, 2007
The spring months arrive, the air is fresh and crisp with the smell of a new season, new life and new hope. The streets are bare of snow, the windows are down, the patios are set up…
And the revealing clothing creeps out.
Seriously, spring time brings out the scandally clad women.
Less clothing means gawker’s paradise.
Working in construction, I see how the men love the spring and summer time. As soon as the temperature hits 10C (50F peeps) the guys venture up to the top of the construction ramp at break to oogle the passing women. The are relatively respectful as they avoid the cat calls and comments, (many construction firms in this area have a low tolerance for cat calls etc. and their workers are well aware of it - or reminded frequently) but could burn a hole through your breasts and ass (T n’ A as they call it) with their stares.
They’re like friggin’ caged animals! All of them. It’s as though the sun and warmth has brought them out of hibernation and it’s time to be an overzealous pervert again. They may not comment out loud in front of the women they ogle, but you can be damn sure there is definitey conversations about what they’ve seen.
Summer months? Ha. All that means is more revealing clothing. Rock hard sweaty tanned bodies..or flabby lily white if you’re like me.
More watching, and longer stares. Leering.
Do you ever notice if you’re walk past someone and they watch you? It can be an uplifting feeling at first, but when you feel their unending stare for a long period of time, it’s incredibly unnerving. I almost feel like picking my nose or something just to deter them from staring any longer.
As harmless as it may be to watch someone, sometimes it can be extremely invading. If you were to google “girl watching” you’d find some sites dedicated to solely to photos taken of women without their consent. Now, it’s one thing to watch a woman pass by you on the street, but another entirely, to post images on the internet of people you’ve seen in passing.
Granted, a lot of the clothing seen on women lately is more revealing scandalous and sometimes downright inappropriate; but does that give people the right to treat those who choose to adorn this attire any differently then someone in business wear? Does it give people the right to assume they are inviting comments, stare and cat calls for being comfortable with their bodies?
I will admit that I’ve ogled, leered and down right stared until my eyeballs went dry when hot guys pass. As long as they don’t catch me, I’d stare, while intermittently wiping drool from my chin. Heck I’ve even watched women sometimes berating them under my breath for being skinner, hotter and sexier then me.
It’s a normal human reaction to watch and admire people, but I believe there is a point where it can and is taken too far. What do you think?
While you’re contemplating your responses about how you feel about being eye candy, I’m off to have lunch outside and watch the hard bodies work of the landscapers.












LOL!
Well I love people watching but not to that extent.
I am not eye candy. I don’t have this experience. But Guys who talk to you and look down at your chest every 2 minutes, I do experience and I just want to sock them in the face.
Pigs. They are just pigs sometimes.
July 10th, 2007 at 1:49 pm
50F is springtime weather there? People start taking their clothes off in that? Wooooowwwww…Our normal cold winter temps are like 40’s and 50’s.
July 10th, 2007 at 3:00 pm
I think looking is fine. Just no touchy.
This time of year here (100 degrees) means I’m wishing people would put their clothes BACK ON!! I guess it’s good for the diet though- all that nasty skin showing and the heat sure does kill an appetite
July 10th, 2007 at 3:49 pm
LOL What do I think???? I think that at 50 DEGREES we are still wearing our winter coats and boots LOL Seriously!!!!
And I have no comments furture seeing that I am married to one of those construction guys…need to keep my image of a hard working man firmly in place. I know he lunchs in the shade with the boys…no women in site/sight. LOL
July 13th, 2007 at 10:49 am