Comments on: revelations of early parenthood and an apology http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/ Rocking the boat since 1981. Tue, 31 Jan 2012 22:49:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Dawn http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1758 Dawn Sat, 17 Nov 2007 03:14:00 +0000 http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1758 I have thrown so many things across the room just to keep me from throwing the baby.... I love him but dizzam.... I have thrown so many things across the room just to keep me from throwing the baby…. I love him but dizzam….

]]> By: justmylife http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1734 justmylife Tue, 13 Nov 2007 17:38:35 +0000 http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1734 I know exactly how you felt. When Little Miss had colic I truly knew how some people could lose it and shake their baby, I controlled the urge, but I really knew how it could happen. She cried 12 hours a day, 7 days a week for 3 1/2 months!!! I have a hubby, but he had just had back surgery and he was no help! You feel alone and you just want a little "ME" time. Good Luck with this little bundle of joy!!!! I know exactly how you felt. When Little Miss had colic I truly knew how some people could lose it and shake their baby, I controlled the urge, but I really knew how it could happen. She cried 12 hours a day, 7 days a week for 3 1/2 months!!! I have a hubby, but he had just had back surgery and he was no help! You feel alone and you just want a little “ME” time. Good Luck with this little bundle of joy!!!!

]]> By: Brenda http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1731 Brenda Tue, 13 Nov 2007 14:11:43 +0000 http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1731 That's very sweet of you to apologize. It still is sometimes difficult to hear how easily some women get pregnant, or to hear them complain endlessly. I am one of those with infertility. It took me over 2 years to get pregnant with Kyle (my youngest). I did fertility treatments that failed. I'm not sure what got me pregnant, since it was an off cycle. But I welcomed every nauseous moment, every pain and ache, I even welcomed and appreciated the complications I had (though I wouldn't want that again). But you know, it's your blog, and you have every right to complain. Pregnancy is not easy. And if it bothers me that much, I'd stop reading. :) Love ya girl...and am very happy for you! That’s very sweet of you to apologize. It still is sometimes difficult to hear how easily some women get pregnant, or to hear them complain endlessly. I am one of those with infertility. It took me over 2 years to get pregnant with Kyle (my youngest). I did fertility treatments that failed. I’m not sure what got me pregnant, since it was an off cycle. But I welcomed every nauseous moment, every pain and ache, I even welcomed and appreciated the complications I had (though I wouldn’t want that again).
But you know, it’s your blog, and you have every right to complain. Pregnancy is not easy. And if it bothers me that much, I’d stop reading. :)
Love ya girl…and am very happy for you!

]]> By: shawna http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1730 shawna Tue, 13 Nov 2007 04:57:37 +0000 http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1730 When it comes to pregnancy I never felt the need to apologize for any of it. I never felt the adjustments that many women do, I never had the raging hormones that many women do, never suffered mommy brain that many women claim...and I can get pregnant just thinking about it, but I have never felt a need to apologize. It is what it is, and I think all what it is for some reason beyond our knowing or understanding: not necessarily a spiritual or religious reason, but some biological or cosmic reason. Having said that doesn't mean I do not feel for those who desparately want a child and suffer through infertility...I truly feel their time will come and often hold them in my prayers. When it comes to pregnancy I never felt the need to apologize for any of it.

I never felt the adjustments that many women do, I never had the raging hormones that many women do, never suffered mommy brain that many women claim…and I can get pregnant just thinking about it, but I have never felt a need to apologize. It is what it is, and I think all what it is for some reason beyond our knowing or understanding: not necessarily a spiritual or religious reason, but some biological or cosmic reason.

Having said that doesn’t mean I do not feel for those who desparately want a child and suffer through infertility…I truly feel their time will come and often hold them in my prayers.

]]> By: moosh in indy. http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1729 moosh in indy. Tue, 13 Nov 2007 03:20:28 +0000 http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1729 ARE YOU KIDDING? I AM THE BITCHIEST MOST COMPLAINING PREGNANT WOMAN THAT EVER WAS OR EVER WILL BE. Happy puking, I'm going to go eat a carton of ice cream, neener neener. :) ARE YOU KIDDING? I AM THE BITCHIEST MOST COMPLAINING PREGNANT WOMAN THAT EVER WAS OR EVER WILL BE.
Happy puking, I’m going to go eat a carton of ice cream, neener neener.
:)

]]> By: ali http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1727 ali Mon, 12 Nov 2007 20:39:46 +0000 http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1727 i get pregnant just looking at gabe. my best friend had several upon several rounds of failed ivf until she finally had her babies. life is so unfair. it hurts me that some women can't have babies or it's hard for them to get pregnant - and i totally feel guilty. i get pregnant just looking at gabe.
my best friend had several upon several rounds of failed ivf until she finally had her babies. life is so unfair. it hurts me that some women can’t have babies or it’s hard for them to get pregnant – and i totally feel guilty.

]]> By: Miss Britt http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1726 Miss Britt Mon, 12 Nov 2007 17:24:16 +0000 http://www.temporarilyme.com/2007/11/12/revelations-of-early-parenthood-and-an-apology/#comment-1726 I am Fertile Myrtle. My first pregnant was unplanned, at 19. I raged about the unfairness, I told stories about the morning sickness, I cried and cried about the sleepless nights. And then, several years later, my best friend who had stood by me through all of it started having fertility problems. She is still childless, almost 8 years after my youngest was born. I can't even bear to talk to her when I'm having a rough mom day because the guilt is so overwhelming. I am Fertile Myrtle. My first pregnant was unplanned, at 19. I raged about the unfairness, I told stories about the morning sickness, I cried and cried about the sleepless nights.

And then, several years later, my best friend who had stood by me through all of it started having fertility problems. She is still childless, almost 8 years after my youngest was born. I can’t even bear to talk to her when I’m having a rough mom day because the guilt is so overwhelming.

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